KAW,
Thanks for stopping by my post. I took you up on your advise and we had a spontaneous midweek dinner out. It went pretty well. It was calm, a little strained but ok. My H loves football and there is a game on Sunday. My thought was to invite friends (both of our friends) over on Sunday. Maybe that would be fun for him. Football Sunday in the past was his entertaining time. That was how all this started with the OW. He would invite her over with some of his buddies and others. Then things escalated from there. But this time I will just invite couples that we're both friends with.What do you think?
Lyn