By sort of arranged, I mean I only wrote 3 letters to her, saw her once, never had any open converstation. I went overseas to learn a language, not to get married - I don't know what I was thinking...
For you, she was swept away - but did she feel love at the time? If so, getting it back is a possibility! Did she ever tell you what it was that grinds her bones for good or for bad?
