Quote: It seems like he doesn't really enjoy my company. Doesn't seem happy when we're together and I don't know what to do. How do you make someone enjoy spending time with you? {and a more current post starts with...} Still struggling with the same issues.
What my W and I would end up doing is getting in a rut of doing the same old thing day after day, night after night. No matter how upbeat an air I would put on, if we were stuck in our routine for too long, CAW would get moody.
What if after work during the week, you treat yourselves to a dinner out ... and then periodically go to a dance club or the movies or just walk the mall to window shop. What are some his interest? Is there something he would like to do that you like to partake in.
Putting aside that H didn't involve you on inviting guess (to which you have already received good advise on), you H seems to have an interest in hosting a social gathering. What if you planned the next time you had friends over or accept an invite over at their place after mentioning it to H first of course.