Before all this divorce busting stuff of your started...
I bet you didn't like your husband very much I bet you were very angry at him I bet you couldn't care less where he was or what he was doing I bet you didn't even notice if he was there half the time
Well, you have through this trying time won something precious for yourself...
You, my dear, have learned to LOVE. I read these posts and its GUSHING out of you now... you made it, I honeslty don't think that's how you started...
I think you see a person in you that you never knew existed. THAT person will ALWAYS be with you wherever you go if you want her to be. She's yours, she's you.
THAT person, is someone you can be proud of, because once you know how to love, you can finally live a fulfilling life... until you know what LOVE truly means like this, your days and nights will always be empty.
No matter what happens in the long term, you have won yourself again... you did all this work, and you can enjoy the person inside of you that you found.
This isn't about him, its about you.
The most wonderful thing I see here...
If the two of you want to save your marriage... YOU are ready... it only takes the two of you.
SO my dear, you are HALF WAY TO SAVING YOUR MARRIAGE ALREADY
Just half way to go.
Allen, that was not only beautiful, it is also TRUE. Sometimes we get so caught up in the seeming hopelessness of our sitch, as we look forward into all of the "stuff" still yet to go thru, that we don't look backwards and see just how much we've GROWN.
I agree with your assessment of MB thru all of this.
