If this is the "real" her then, no. I don't think it is, though. The person I remember is loving and caring to me and our kids. This person is niether to any of us.
What's the rule of thumb? One month for every year of marriage and I've only been doing this for about a month. Patience, right?

Me-43
W-36
TS-10
D-7
S-4
M-11
Rings off-8/16/2010

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