My husband wants me to come up with ways for him to prove that it is over with her and that it will never start up again. Would it be inappropriate to ask him to put the house on it? If he begins his affair again.. he walks away from the house? I have read about this type of arrrangement before in several articles. Just want to know anyone's opinion on it.

If things don't work in our marriage... that is one thing... but I refuse to give this another go if he is going to go back and do the same thing over again. I need to know this is a risk worth taking...if there was a risk assessment done on my marriage right now... not looking good. I need some insurance..big time.