I'm trying to be patient and have not contacted W other than when speaking to boys. In fact, There has been no contact with anyone since Sun afternoon. This morning W. calls me on way to work to inform about upcoming parents evening. Kept everything business like but then she extended conversation about future hospital appointment for minor op to S12 (not being scheduled until late Apr/May). Again kept business like, thanked her for her call & hung up. Trying to stay calm, detach, follow all the good advice being put forward but there seems to be a lot going on at present which is difficult(also reading DR). Just trying to keep busy but finding it difficult to concentrate on anything else at present. Am I playing this ok? Any words of advice?