Allen, That was a very nice post, thank you. His mom told me he didn't file, just had L start the paper work. And then he called and left me a message saying the same. And in his message it said, I didn't file, just in case we get back together. I didn't respond.
It's time to explain what has happened with his sister last week, because I think it might affect my H's decisions good or bad I don't know. His sister had to leave her H in the middle of the night; they have been married for about 10 years and have 2 kids. They live in a different state away from all of her family. It turns out that he has been beating her and has had multiple A. It's been a very abusive R. Now she and kids are living with her mom along with my H.
I'm pretty close with his sister, especially since we are both going through the same thing (mine not as bad as her's) and there is no way she can save her M. And she knows I want to save mine. I sat with her on Sun and told her everything that has happened, and she does believe her brother is having an A. Yesterday my H also mentioned to his mom and sister, that he is hoping to get his own place within the next couple of weeks. He has not brought this up in a long time. I'm thinking he can't handle seeing the pain his sister is in and it makes him feel even guiltier.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10
