Hi Still struggling with the same issues. Had a bad night tonight. Seems like we're stuck moving nowhere. Don't get me wrong, some things are better. But tonight, he invited people over after I had gone to the store to buy dinner food. I was all set to prepare dinner for us (H, our S and me) when he informed me that he invited people over for wine and cheese. Usually I am ok with this on the spur of the moment stuff which he always does. He could tell it bothered me a little although I didn't say anything or complain because I don't want to be the party pooper.I ended up cooking for all of us which again I am ok with. It's just that I am never consulted. It's always about him and what he wants to do. He talks about what he wants to talk about but when I try to talk I feel shut down. Since I have been d'bing I try not to discuss things that I feel will not bring me closer to my goals. But this issue is really starting to bother me. No it's not starting, it has always bothered me. I'm frustrated. What to do? Help me stay on the d'bing track. Lyn
