I'm back. Things are about the same as before. Good points: we seek each other out for conversation, I do alot of little things for her that I know she notices. Bad points: she still hasn't initiated any more hugs. I have backed off on hugs, it seemed like they were being forced on her.
I would like to hear from someone who has gone through this as to wether this is normal and what to expect. I don't want to push but I don't want to be a doormat. Trying to be patient.