I've read in here that a lot of people have to D in order to forge a better R.
Like you said tread lightly and be sure to shine!!
As for your post above about finding this site when the shirt hits the fan or a bit too late...truer words were never spoken.
Look at all the diff thread subjects...I could have made my way in here at Sex Starved Marriage- instead I chose to complain to my friends and do nothing...
So instead, I find myself entering at WAS- who figured?!
The point is we made it here, and sadly, as far as I know, it's usually only one spouse utilizing this site and board...too bad.