Wow this jumped out at me! :
"I figured, we cant talk about these things right now. We first need to establish some kind of solid foundation/environment where we both will feel safe. I may be using the MC time for that and only then."

Yay, at last! This is a textbook Piecing approach I do believe and I'm so glad to read things are "on the up" if not yet won derful. And brulliant (and very sweet really) that he made the point of showing you he was taking the LL languages book with him.. even if he was too busy to read it (hopefully not).
Keep going you are on the right track!!
xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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