You did excellently at the meeting, only "thing" I have is, as you say it's none of your business who thinks what about H, or what he thinks so why do you care.
As for K, not that I'm into guys or anything, but I can tell you from my point of view being with Jo, I'm way content to just sit and talk for hours. I know she appreciates it (and I love it too) Theres no pressure for anything "heavy" - just nice to be together. If you want to see someone then this is definitely a really good start.
I know I don't have to tell you this but I will anyway - just make sure you do it for you, not to make H jealous or anything and I know you're too good a person to do that.
You did so well today Aver, I'm really proud of you and so happy for you.
PS Does your "beard" guy have a beard, cos I hear they can really tickle !!!
PPS what are you knitting ?
H: 44 W: 42 Married: 23 years Bomb: 16/07/2009 PA Confirmed: 16/01/2010 Over it & working on ME: Feb'ish 2010