how do you know he didn't file yet? I hope that is true- but I must tell you that honestly, I don't see him filing for D! I see him being freaked out but not knowing what he wants (kind of like my WH and I am not just saying that, but for God's sake, go NC while you can! If I didn't have an infant, I would, I swear!) So, stay the course, keep your emotions in check, be as strong as you can...be confident. TRUST YOUR GUT in all of this, too! And stop getting arguing with him!

Last edited by newmama; 03/02/10 06:27 AM.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004