You have it all right, Awest. It is very sad but true. You said all the right things back to him, but he was really just being ridiculous. I know it would be hard for me not to cave in to him but you are doing absolutely great about holding your ground. As you are saying, OW cannot ever be a part of his life if he wants to work it out with you. He is being selffish and just wants the best of all worlds. I think you're gearing up for what's coming next week. It's hard to know what God's will is, but I know someday we'll be able to look back at this period in our lives with understanding - if nothing else for the strength and courage it gave us. Just keep praying for God's strength for you and for wisdom and healing for H.
So sorry to hear about your grandpa. I know you were telling me about that b/c of H's depression. It's just so hard to know what to do. Sometimes meds are some helpful and other times they can be so disasterous. =( I'm just really sorry about it. It's unbelievable that H wasn't there for you thru that either. You do deserve much better then that. I hope he can come to his senses and be the H he needs to be, but I know you have the strength to carry on with or without him. Stay strong!
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
