the card, i debated on that, but in the resources, regardless of what she feels or doesn't it is her bday coming up.
i was really against and had prayed on it, well anyway, open up a menu at a pizza place and right inside it says, remembering a woman's birthday but not her age is the sign of a true diplomat.
my heart was leaning towards a card and then seeing that, was like well, she's gone this far and i've pushed pretty hard.
she had also said cards or letters that meant the most to her were a person's own words, so the poem, with no R talk was my own words. it was really a silly poem with a post it note that said happy bday stick it on ur dashboard.
I didn't sign my name.
the post it, well i used to write notes on post it's for her and stick 'em on her dashboard so when she'd be going to work there was a note from me, at one time, she said those notes made her day.
it's funny every now and then, i still think hold on, this was how it was how n the heck did we get here and so quickly a yr ago she was crying about how great i was, when she had a flat tire in the middle of a thundershower and I changed it out, got soaked like no one's business, it was worth it.
but that day she said a lot of nice things about me. and cried for being so lucky, kids even said dad ur awesome man.
it was just a flat tire to me, it was cold and rainy as heck, but i really felt appreciated that day and glad i was on the road trip with them.
