I'm in the opposite, it is me that hasn't loved my W (sort of arranged marriage + I'm way too impulsive but didn't know it then...)
I suggested it to my W, who reluctantly agreed, then later disagreed. I said I was going no matter what, but I hoped she would come. She then agreed again.
I don't think I'm loosing - how can you lose something that is already lost?? I'm hoping. I'm trying.
In a way, I feel like I "don't need the weekend", but then again, my kids need me trying and it is better to try this than nothing.
I have been reminded that one weekend can give a boost, or help reclaim lost ground, but it can't change bad communication patterns or get rid of all the baggage. I'm sure there are exceptions, I hope you (and my fam) are exceptions...but I'm not expecting miracles. I just hope/pray for them.
I still have to log in to get the hotel address, but I forgot the password! Stress....~
Are you going to post what happened on your weekend? I'd love to hear how it turns out for others.
