I do not know if I can ask a retrouvaille question on this site or not. I am off to one this weekend with my wife of 12 years.
She has indicated she wants a divorce because she does not love me and has never loved me. We have 8 year old twins.
I think she is going simply to have us communicate better as a divorced couple.
Any thoughts on what this weekend entails? I still intend to go. You can lead a horse to water and all....
Trying but losing...
You ever hear of intention manifestation or self-fulfilling prophecy? With a name like "trying but losing", you're going to attract that in your life. You sound very negative and that's very unattractive.
I'm going to give you a small 2x4 but an important one, pick a name that is more positive, if you can't choose one, just use your first name or something to that effect.
There is no trying, Do or Do Not but no trying. Trying implies failure and seriously you sounds like it's over before anything has happened.
Start acting like a positive, attractive, good willed, confident man - that's attractive, being a negative, complaining, wussy, whining man is and will always kill a woman's attraction.
Change you or continue on this path that you're on right now. Never mind your wife, you work on and change you, in the end that's all you have control over anyways.
