I do not know if I can ask a retrouvaille question on this site or not. I am off to one this weekend with my wife of 12 years.

She has indicated she wants a divorce because she does not love me and has never loved me. We have 8 year old twins.

I think she is going simply to have us communicate better as a divorced couple.

Any thoughts on what this weekend entails? I still intend to go. You can lead a horse to water and all....

Trying but losing...




Last edited by Tryingbutlosing; 03/02/10 04:18 AM.
TBL now equals "Toward Better Love"
M-44 W-42; 2 kids; married 11 years
1st bomb 10-08, reconcile 12-08
2nd bomb 8-09, moving toward reconcile 3-7-10