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KerryK, you might try a stability ball if you want to do sit ups. It really helps take the strain off your back.

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Originally Posted By: Steve McQueen
50 situps. YOU and YOU!


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I refuse to discuss. I ain't doing situps.

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Stability balls AND Bosu balls are great for situps...and pushups for that matter!


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Originally Posted By: CityGirl
I "banked" my situps this morning so I could make my post.


Originally Posted By: KerryK
For a 50 year old guy, I'm getting a sore low back from doing all these situps. Can I do pushups instead?


EXCELLENT!!!!!!!

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Originally Posted By: BobbiJo
Stability balls AND Bosu balls are great for situps...and pushups for that matter!


You guys should do this... I've been secretly doing this for four weeks. http://www.hundredpushups.com/ I couldn't do five when I started... I'm at about 40 right now.


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25,

I have a question since you studied canon law. What is considered a formal act of defecting from the catholic faith?

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Nevermind 25,

I think I found the answer to my question.

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Originally Posted By: K4D
Nevermind 25,

I think I found the answer to my question.

Kevin



good. B/C that is one huge deflection of irrelevance and digression. Moreover, the questions about which "theological camp" one follows is designed to categorize answers rather than considering them. IF a person is "in" your camp & disagrees, you'll focus on how they are missing the real teachings of said camp. If they are followers of the "other camp", then you can dismiss their beliefs as being based on the wrong camp.

Either way, when they disagree with you, you don't have to consider the merits of their beliefs. I think that's a dead end to growth, and a sure fire way to stay stuck. You want to be on a spiritual search and have all the answers? Good luck.

You may have to Try finding a handful of beliefs you can truly rely upon and apply in your life, and stop spinning wheels trying to safe proof your life with a code of behavior that is risk free...

I also think whenever a belief is conveniently self serving, it should be doubly inspected for validity. Make sense?
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I know you want to follow what the church says, but I hope your decisions are not hinged upon whether the M is valid or not. I would give it some consideration, but not live my life for any other reason than your W is out, unfaithful, and living her life.

smile You are doing great.


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