Well you've got a helluva lot of patience. Push for the MC with a licensed psychiatrist. Then you make her stick with it or you're gone for good. Your kids need that right now for stability in her.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.