beginning to see the real W

[Dr LOve]

Thanks Lotus,
I am kind of excited about it. I meet with a man from the state on Wednesday to start the paperwork.
Collage WOMEN……..Just kidding……
The only thing it that W is now going to have to go out and get a job. She has gone though some changes these last few weeks. SHE mentioned that if I go to school she will really need to start looking hard for a job or at least go work at a temp agency.
Yesterday we went to one of her cousin’s kid’s birthdays. W's sister was there and she made a comment about "Wife's body shape" W is about 5'7" her cousin is about 5'. Her cousin (Not to be mean) kind of looks like one of those kids toys "webills" you know the saying “Webills wobble but they don't fall downs” her sister said “you know it’s interesting you and XXXXXXXX have the same body shape except different sizes”
She is not obese but…..

I don’t think W liked that...she didn’t get mad but I think it got her thinking... Today all she talked about is how she is going to start watching what she eats... This is good… She is starting to take care of herself again. She has kind of thinking of herself as “I am not worth it...I’m a loser” attitude.

Mr. Bond, YES that is the approach I was going to take