with him saying be friends i have such problem with it.

how am i to have him be friend and feel ok?

he says hed come mow my lawn. only wants contact to be about kids. would watch 2 kids my work while i have conferences, i said it hurts me to much. would confuse my students.

i dont have strength to be non teary or upset in his presense

Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline