Just read this thread I am new here but desperately need to talk to you and any of your wise friends here. You can read my story in newcomers "New and here's the Sitch" topic. I don't know how to cut and paste the link here yet.
My W has PTSD from child sexual abuse. Only know that it involved her sister and started at a very young age. Sister definitely has deep problems is Borderline which makes me think she was most likely abused too by whom I do not know and probably never will oh "THE SOUND AND THE FURY."! I am separated and W is in a PA which started before I left in Dec 09. I am suspect of a lot of the situations she has relayed to me and some stuff her friend has told me that she has done. Her friend was at the time and is a very serious alcoholic and is now in rehab so I don't know who to believe my wife denies it all. It is 2nd M for both of us and no kids. She has a problem with alcohol too.
She is 38 and up until recently was a model and very successful but since we have been married is just a mess. No more modeling because of her age. She has gotten a DUI and has been arrested for battery at a night club all since we been married the past 2.5 years.
I am like you in that I don't choose the easy road. My integrity won't allow it which is why Im here trying to get my marriage back on track.
I need help!!!! I don't know what to do she is seeing a dr. and on medication but Im afraid there has been no progress that I can tell and she may have borderline personality disorder not just PTSD. We want to have kids but Im reading your story and its me in 2 years? 5 years? 10 years? I don't know its a ticking time bomb.
What can I do? The posts are right this is not simple DB stuff. She has a disease and I can't help her. I am so sad. I went dark yesterday bc she is still having the A but she calls me when she feels depressed. Can't have it anymore she's eating cake.
Please help.
Truegritter
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
