No Kara, I think it's H who has checked out mentally. I am trying to detach really hard without becoming resentful.
How I'm making it work is the time we do spend together (which is rare) I just try to be "me" and try not to think about the relationship and how bad it really is.
It seems that everyone here thinks I have an advantage in my sitch but I just don't see it. I'm trying to stay positive though.
M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10