No Kara, I think it's H who has checked out mentally. I am trying to detach really hard without becoming resentful.

How I'm making it work is the time we do spend together (which is rare) I just try to be "me" and try not to think about the relationship and how bad it really is.

It seems that everyone here thinks I have an advantage in my sitch but I just don't see it. I'm trying to stay positive though.


M44 H41
M20 T23
3 older teens
Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy"
EA Nov 09 w/coworker
Another PA in Mar 10
I Filed Apr 10
D final Dec 10