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[awest1217]

I don't know if H can't get an apartment, can't afford one, or doesn't want to get one by himself.

As for H and OW they planned and even had a budget made at the end of last school year for how to live in an apartment together and how much they could save. I think she was seriously thinking about divorcing her H and just living with my H forever. He wanted a divorce at that time too so I think they were just going to live together right away. Either way he still doesn't understand how he can't be friends with her after that. For all I know he gave her the $4000 and they have a secret joint account somewhere. I don't know and he won't give her up so that is that. Having a friend is one thing, but it crossed the line long ago and it wasn't becuase he was talking to her all the time. He flirted, lived with, planned a life with her so she has to go or I do.