Lots of stuff in there.

Sure he can get an apartment in two weeks. I cover real estate. Landlords are really hurting for applicants with a steady job. So that's not being truthful.

He just won't grow up. It took me a long time to. I never carried on this kind of thing -- not even remotely close -- but for my 20th reunion I was calling lots of people since I was on the committee. Some were exes and I remember W giving me funny looks.

I shouldn't have done that and I see that now.

I'm still unclear on a few things between H and OW. How could they be talking about getting an apartment together when she's married as well?

Blocking you from his AIM is crap as well. I guess he doesn't get that he has years to go to rebuild trust and if you somehow did let him home you'd have to have access to everything -- phone, FB, email.

Sorry it looks to be turning the other way again.


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