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I take offense at the LBS rallying cry that you mention jack because I would do anything for my children as would you
certainly walk through hell and back without question
but part of being a good parent is not giving them more power than they can handle and I don't see MHL to be saying that he is giving the adult reigns to a 13 yr old


Fig,

I would walk through hell for my boys, I know you would for yours, and several others kids as well.

I think I wasn't clear enough...imagine that.

That Rally cry of the LBSer.

I mean the LBS Says that they can handle all this DBing crap, stand, sit, dance a jig for their marriage...whatever.

But the ones with kids...they have an out.

Once they start thinking that their spouse infidelity has somehow affected their kids...Wam Bam thank you mam! I no longer have to DB, nor should I!!!!

That is what I am talking about.

"I could do this, except she was mean to the kids yesterday that vile back biting bicth! They actually saw her WAVE the the OM in the store! I cannot imagine the mental dmage that did to them!"

Make more sense?

Miss,

You daughter MAY act like a 16 or 17 year old...
she is till 13.

My kids act older than they are, they have too to get my jokes. : )

They are still only 14 and 9 though.



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