Fig, You are right, there are details here that I will finish putting together so everyone can see what I am dealing with. It is messed up to say the least.
In a nutshell, D13 knows everything. OM#1, OM#2, ONS, saw picture on FB that Dumb A$$ friend of my W posted of W hanging on random guy at a bar, and the worst part is the lying over and over again. I can't tell you the number of times my D13 has completely nailed my W in a lie while they were going at it.
In the words of my D13's Therapist, "D13 has a pretty good reason to never talk to Mom again". This is not the Therapist's goal here at all but within the context of justification of my D13's feelings, Damn right she has a right to be mad with her Mom.
Still, we can overcome some pretty nasty stuff people do to us, even our parents. I have realized that I can forgive my W for what she has done/ is doing even to our kids, and I do have compassion for her.
Formerly "missherlove"
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
