Make sure that you continue to work on YOU! don't do what many do and continue old ways of interacting. I'm concerned that the stress of the termination will add to what is already on your plate. Both of you should seek counseling.
You still need boundaries...she needs to provide transparency...
I've had a few false reconciliations...but DB'ing has given me a different outlook on life that I wish I had had during earlier reconciliation attempts.
