all I want is for her to know what she has done. You tell me that she already knows and thats good enough for me.
I wanted to make sure you understood what I was saying. Anyway, let me say this......she doesn't see things on the level that you see it. Even feeling guilty "now" will not be the depth that she will probably feel later. I don't think she can fully see or know what she is doing to her family right at this particular time......or that she cares enough, right now. A WAW in an A is about the most selfish thing there is. And, remember that she is in a very thick fog and that prevents her from thinking logically. But it doesn't help for you to point it out to her, see what I mean? That just makes her fight you harder.
Even if she "knows" what she's doing....it does not outweigh her desire to be with OM. That fogged up desire that has her brain messed up clouds all her judgement.
The main thing I wanted you to realize was that she will not get away with doing wrong to others. She won't get through this without experiencing guilt, but you have to give everything time. We all suffer the consequenses of our bad decisions, but when we do our loved ones the way she is doing.....you can count on it, payday is coming someday.
So, I just wanted to make sure I didn't cause you to misunderstand what I was saying, okay?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
