Is this one in the same incidents or another time?
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There was also an incedent where I disrespected her publically in front of our friends and she tells me that its a scar that she cannot over look. I am not tring to make excuses but I was with my buddies and that day alot of alcohol was consumed. You can say that I was not in the best form that day. The decision that I chose was definatly the wrong one. I will say, that this is the one topic that my W uses against me all the time which she says this is why the loss of connection.
If it is the same incident that you are talking about in your post in this thread, then I don't see it as a "breakthrough" b/c you brought it up in an early thread. If it is not the same incident, then ......well, you don't want me to say anymore about that.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
