Thanks for giving me hope. He has admitted that he is confused and hurting and that the only way to make this all end is a D. So, I do agree that is why he is heading that way, he wants his pain to stop and he feels that is the only way.
Yep, you are understanding him well... He may file, but that isnt' the end.. I read on here someplace today that a couple had filed three times before they actually put an end to things.
The thing is, your H IS feeling the pressure we are putting on him... That's a good thing... He just isnt' handling it well... he needs GUIDANCE is all...
I would give that place he went to a call and make sure that he does not go to see her again.. I would give them a piece of my mind...
"Why did my husband go to a session with one of YOUR counsellors and then file for divorce three days later? What kind of place are you running here anyway?"