WAH in MLC with PA

[fisherman]

Sometimes the things we imagine ... aren't the reality after all.

Absolutely. I'd even go one futher and say many times when it comes to this.

[Jack_Three_Beans]

I'd rather you be mad at me, than make a very very bad decision.

Right now, you call them and you're going to sound like a psycho.

[Drew]

Or me. Take it out on me.

Because I've been there.

[fisherman]

I'd rather you be mad at me, than make a very very bad decision.

Right now, you call them and you're going to sound like a psycho.

That's what I'm sayin.

It's perfectly ok and healthy to be angry.

It's NOT ok to use it as an excuse to lower yourself and play the psycho game.

[DiamondGirl]

I am a psycho when it comes to my kids!!!

Why is it a bad decision? What am I going to salvage from this crap? Marriage? What marriage? What relationship?

How the heck can we ever come back from this? Why would I want to salvage something when someone sees fit to stomp all over my heart and thinks nothing of traumatizing and confusing the kids with his actions!!!

He traumatized them by leaving now he's confusing him with his psycho ho!!!

Selfish psychos the both of them!!!

[Drew]

How the heck can we ever come back from this? Why would I want to salvage something when someone sees fit to stomp all over my heart and thinks nothing of traumatizing and confusing the kids with his actions!!!

Jack,

Tell her.

[DiamondGirl]

Why should she keep the respect of her colleagues and earn the money to fly to another country and plan a life with my kids included in it??

What would her grown sons think of her actions? Why shouldn't they know all about it?? My whole family knows (such as is left) and now the family I adopted as part of my own is supporting his crap!!!

Why should I "pave the way smooth" for the lying cheating psycho!!??

My way sure hasn't been friggin smooth!!!

I've been bombed down to nothing and climbed out of the hole and am still standing so why shouldn't I just be happy with that instead of imagining some fantasy future with someone who loves me so much he pulls this crap!!!

[fisherman]

I am a psycho when it comes to my kids!!!

There are plenty of us here with children who have experienced some pretty F'd up sh*t. Children are often a "safe" excuse to use.

IMO, my children would be the primary excuse for NOT playing the psycho game.

Make sense? Why add gas to their fire. Your children will most likely feel the effects directly or indirectly.

Be better, do better for your kids. Don't use them to justify going off on your H.

[fisherman]

Why should I "pave the way smooth" for the lying cheating psycho!!??

I dunno....

That's what wer're trying to get you NOT to do.

By going off on the two of them, you'll be laying a nice smooth stretch of "jacked up justification road" for them to spin their wheels on.

[DiamondGirl]

So tell me.. what other sleeping options could there have been? Autistic and toddler cannot be alone in a separate room especially since son is going thru puberty.. connecting doors? maybe... but he'd still be sleeping in the same bed with the ho within view of my kids... Still BS!!!