Is this piecing?

[flowmom]

I know that one thing that I've dealt with endlessly with H is that he is not realistic about the finite nature of time and energy. When I've taken on work commitments and asked him if this is OK (because it means him being flexible instead of me all the time) he always says yes. But then he punishes me because he can't actually do everything he wants to do and be more flexible for me. He doesn't want to say "no" but he can't be realistic that a time commitment means not doing other things. So I can really relate to what you're going through with this.

(((H4L)))