WAH in MLC with PA

[DiamondGirl]

SIL1 has been enabling him by letting him get away with stuff in her house.. said she was worried about my not letting her see the kids.. well now I know why the flick she is so afraid.. no wonder she and I played phone tag... she didn't want to have to lie to me... the whole family is even more dysfunctional than I am!!!

So much for the 14 friggin years I put up with his crap!!! 20 years and this is what I get for being the best wife and SIL I could be!!!!

[fisherman]

I understand how upset you must be.

You need to do nothing for a couple of days. Take time to think things through and let your emotions settle or else YOU will be the one who is painted the psycho.

Take some time and calm down. We all have been there and there isn't a person who has walked this walk that will tell you to fight psycho with psycho. YOU WILL NOT WIN BY PLAYING THEIR GAME.

[DiamondGirl]

Well considering SIL house is full and PsychBiatch lives in MA, I can only assume they went to a hotel.. and in one room.. so don't tell me they were in a freakin house!!! Sleeping with each other in the same freaking room as my kids is beyond reprehensible as far as I am concerned!!!

I have invested years into this!!! FREAKIN YEARS!!!

And now he is treating it like it was nothing!!! LIKE him and I were nothing!!! And banging someone in front of my kids!!!

[DiamondGirl]

AND his family, whom I thought adopted me as family, are just letting it happen!!!

[Jack_Three_Beans]

I can only assume

Indeed.

[fisherman]

AND his family, whom I thought adopted me as family, are just letting it happen!!!

He's grown. What are they going to do? What CAN they do?

Vent, scream, do what ever it takes but don't do it to them or around them.

You will fuel their fire and make them stronger.

[DiamondGirl]

Where the frig else would they sleep?? separate hotel rooms.. forget it.. he wouldn't let my kids sleep alone in another room... my son is autistic!.. and he wouldn't pass up yet another opportunity to be with his "soulmate" so yeah... I think he got a room with two beds and banged her right next to them!!!

Psych professor can't tell MLC??? Some friggin psych professor!! How would she feel if someone did that to her kids? Oh yeah.. I forgot ... she's so friggin wonderful NEITHER of them want to live with her!!!

[Drew]

Sometimes the things we imagine ... aren't the reality after all.

[DiamondGirl]

He's grown alright!! So kick his a$$ out for not following what he said he would and give his family his pay.. and for all the other things he hasn't followed through on...

I have Psycho woman's college president's email... how would he like to know how friggin moral the biatch is!! And such a good judge of a personality!!!

[DiamondGirl]

I didn't imagine SIL2 telling me they went away Saturday and not coming home on Sunday!!! Not much option as to where they would sleep.. the car? Doubt Psycho woman who loves Prada and grew up in Texas would do that!!! (sorry Texans)