And when you said "Never do that again"...to either one of them and they did it anyway...cause they will. What happens then? You have just doubled your anger.
Couple of things you need to realize.
They ARE having an affair. That means they are having sex, and sleep together.
And occasionally, our children will be in the same house.
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I feel like just calling, telling her and him off and filing for custody tomorrow!!!!
Look,
Cat04 called you to task for the texts and she was right.
You call her, and you justify his decisions so far.
You need to get a grip on your emotions and the buttons.
Your 3 year old daughter, likely will not recall much of this except mom and dad fighting.
Letting your anger direct the course of action is a very bad choice.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
