Your daughter...at 13 is making a choice to despise her mother that will last... a VERY VERY long time, if not a lifetime.
Sorry Jack I have to call you on that. My D23 went through that stage. She hated her mother but it is a stage. More of a girl stage. My D23 does not hate her mother anymore they grow out of the teenage stage. Now remember my D23 is bipolar and my W ???? so this was the precursor to all these events. But D23 loves her mother even now! So that is my $.02