Haha KerryK! "Bacon pudding!" But they do make bacon ice cream. I thought I read on hungrygirl.com that the light baconnaise is really yummy! (30 cal/tbspn too) and vegetarian???
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
OK, folks, I had a "not long enough" chat today w/G in the alt, and I've made a decision.
Like it or not, I'm continuously fighting depression, despair, etc..., and existing within the framework of rejection. My family may function like this cute little American (apple pie) family, but two of us are miserable, and at this point, one of the two of it is causing it. I own my responsibility for getting us here, but have worked to make things right WAY too long to let this continuously quick sand me.
So, I am going to face my fears, and I am going to communicate w/my H, even though he's going to be unwilling to hear it. I've been productive during my runs, and I've been praying for the "words" (talking points), and I'm getting there.
My S12 turns into S13 in a few weeks, and as soon as his birthday is out of the way, I will "woman up" and communicate my displeasure of our current circumstances, and enforce some much needed requirements for us going forward.
Just help me keep my chin up for the next few weeks, and then be prepared to hold my hand shortly after.
Thank you all.
And quit talkin' about bacon! I'm starving here!
Last edited by mindfull; 03/01/1009:45 PM.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Excellent decision MF! I do think it's time to speak up and let H know what you want moving forward. You have put in the time and effort to show him that you have changed for the better. Now you can present your list of wants/needs and H can decide what he wants to do.
I will do my part to try to keep your spirits up and encourage you.
One last word about bacon--if you like it, definitely try the Bacon Salt. It's actually very low sodium, vegetarian, and imparts good bacon flavor without the bad fat. I use it on salad and to spice up grilled cheese sandwiches.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
Excellent decision MF! I do think it's time to speak up and let H know what you want moving forward. You have put in the time and effort to show him that you have changed for the better. Now you can present your list of wants/needs and H can decide what he wants to do.
I will do my part to try to keep your spirits up and encourage you.
I will as well
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
