We are in the exact same boat. It has been said before but it is almost scary how similar our (and others) sitchs are.
I am no longer defined by raw emotions but I still have a real desire to avoid my W as much as possible, and it is helping. Whenever I start thinking about my W and all of the negatives, I try to turn things around and think about all of the positives that await me. I still do not want to be bitter when this is all over, but I think there will always be a part of me that will resent her actions. Does that sound normal?
