ColombianChick, thanks so much I have poured over that site and learned a LOT. I didn't learn how to communicate with my BPD WAW, and how to set boundaries. I was truly a rescuer and co-dependent to boot. I hope we both survive this as well as can be expected, but I feel my WAW will eventually regret her impulsive action, but I may not be there anymore. My friends tell me to RUN away, but I love her so much. I'll keep reading and listening.
Thanks so much!
Eternal optimist
LBS (me):48 WAW:44 Married:11 T: 16 Separated: 02/10/10 Separated: one year first time, two years ago Sitch: http://bit.ly/baqySm