ColombianChick, thanks so much I have poured over that site and learned a LOT. I didn't learn how to communicate with my BPD WAW, and how to set boundaries. I was truly a rescuer and co-dependent to boot. I hope we both survive this as well as can be expected, but I feel my WAW will eventually regret her impulsive action, but I may not be there anymore. My friends tell me to RUN away, but I love her so much. I'll keep reading and listening.

Thanks so much!


Eternal optimist


LBS (me):48
WAW:44
Married:11 T: 16
Separated: 02/10/10
Separated: one year first time, two years ago
Sitch: http://bit.ly/baqySm