I do take yoga classes and go to the gym (should go more often). I need to get out more. I work on our business from home, so I feel a little cut-off from the real world at the moment, I spend lots of time by myself or with clients on the phone or e-mail. I need to change that, I need to get out more.
WH & I were always best friends and that was truly great, however I don't really have that many really close girlfriends and he doesn't have close male friends. We have couple-friends, but I already found that they have hard time with this and don't want to get in the middle of it - loyalties to both of us. I have 2 very close girlfriends and they both moved away - one out of the country and the other about 400 miles away - she came and stayed with me for few days last month when I needed it the most and we talk on the phone, but that's about it.
My family is in Europe and I didn't tell them anything yet. WH's family lives here, and he didn't tell them yet either. Actually his sister knows but only because she is a therapist and is trying to help him.
I joined a divorce support group. Went to one rebuilding meeting. It was good to meet new people in the same sitch, but little depressing but I will continue going to the meetings.
I know that I need some carefree, happy times and some fun. I'll work on that .
Last edited by Mila; 03/01/1009:35 PM.
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