GMAN - I'm in the house as well buddy. Also dealing with an EA so trust me I understand how you feel. What has worked for me is that I look at my kids and realize why I am doing this. Focus on your kids dude. Focus on them - it is an investment that will pay off in the future. Remember buddy any changes you do are for you not to save the M - trust me when I tell you that they can see right thru it. Oh...an never mention it to them - let them see it. Remember you cannot control another only yourself. You will survive this - you will man. Keep your head up.
When you feel like quitting....ask youself this...do I really love this person enough to stick this out even though...I may be in limbo, everything may appear to be working against me...well do you love her enough...do you? Only you can answer this question - What it will tell you is the type of man that you are and the character that exists in you. Some will say that you will not let go...I say let go and work on you but stand and show the world your character!
By the way are you on the Alt?
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
