If she asks...but the truth is informing/asking her about things like sleep overs is just respectful action. She should know...so there is no agreeing....you should just do it. If for some reason the living arrangements change....then so does this course of action. But for now...still living together...respect her as you would want to be respected
Agreed Lost.
You know the more I search inside myself the more "stuff" i find that needs to change. It's been a very slow process for me but I'm guess starting to "get it". I really do need to just focus on ME. The reality is that I cannot change someone else or control what someone else does or does not do. What I do control though is how I handel myself and each situation.
A few recent observations about myself...
1) I'm actually a pretty nice guy and not the demon that I was made out to be! 2) I say that I do not have patience - yet I'm still here almost 6 months later. FTR I never thought I would last more than 3 months. 3) I am a pretty good dad. 4) I have a great heart and love deeply. 5) I never really "worked" at the M but...I also never realized how much you have to. 6) I can change! 7) I will survive this! 8) I actually want to thank my wife - if it were not for this I would not have taken the time to really address the issues that I needed to. Thank you honey!
Oh...and the EA still kills me but this is her cross to bear not mine.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
