Flowmom, you must keep hope. Stick with your DB goals. Yes, be smart and find out a plan in case you D but hope is vital for DBers...or else why not just give up and file for D, KWIM?

Also, for someone who is into Buddha and zen and all that, you are impatient! ;-) I DO love your raw, honest posts though!!!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004