H4L: I think he has trouble setting his own boundaries so it's easier to try to control me.
Yes.
I hate to say this, but he may be too messed up NOT to make an issue out of this play at this time unless you arrange for babysitters. Whether it's 1 or 3 nights a week, he can always get resentful for having to arrange around it and say YOU control his schedule by having a life.
This might be too much to handle too soon. I don't know.
No, it's not fair. I'm taking a realistic perspective. Yet I also understand you are setting future precedents. Hard one.
