Jstar, you just need to let time go by and not "do" anything for awhile. You just have to survive for awhile, so don't even think about a plan right now. Seriously! If you remember with your daughter, it gets easier about 4-5 months after the birth...so just try not to get into big ugly fights...be a pacifist for awhile but give yourself a break from DBing.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
