Ok time to stop reassuring him...he is saying it to get you to give him attention,feel sorry for him, etc. Next time he says that say "I'm sorry you feel that way." (nothing more) and see what he does!


Check out that Bitches book- it is not just about being assertive...in fact that was one of 20 things in there...

Hang in there this week- it does feel like you are on the Twilight Zone, I know. But who knows what life will be like for you in 6 months or a year so get through this week first!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004