beginning to see the real W

[MrBond]

I guess it's because things have seemed just stagnant for so long. Have you thought about revisiting your DB goals, then trying 180s, etc.?

It still seems like your W needs jolt to snap her into a direction towards you. It seems like since you've left it up to her to feel what she's going to feel, she's going to drag you along very slowly. Maybe you just need to take charge once again.

Just my 2 cents.