Finally realised that he is having an A!!

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I agree - I am not going to even consider an answer. My H doesnt like to be ignored so this will not go down well. You are right, I have noticed that he gets really angry when he knows he is wrong and then backpeddles with a text apology like that is good enough.

What do you think about my Facebook friend invite to OW's H. I dont have his details and this would be my only way of getting hold of him. I want to send a blank invite and then see how he responds.

He is quite public about what he is doing as they all go out together like a 'happy family' and do stuff. Thankfully he doesnt live close, so I dont bump into them. However just this last weekend thye wer in my territory. So no, he is not ashamed of his actions and still wont admit to an affair and also still doesnt feel he has done anything wrong. He has said he is just trying to get on with his life and can do anything he likes. When my boys are with him, they can do whatever he wants. He doesnt consider anyone but himself and what he wants.

You are right nothing I say registers - so it is silence from now on.